On 10/19/2011 10:48 PM, Mark Brader wrote:

> Barry Margolin:

>> Finally, just one last comment: I think you may be expecting too much

>> when you expect posters to appreciate these fine nuances of language.

>> This is an informal medium, people write stream of consciousness.

>

> True.

>

>> The basic point is that not asking is surprising in this situation, and

>> that results in UI.

>

> Well, that depends on your partner's habits.  However, whether it's

> surprising or not, the *fact* that partner didn't ask is UI.

I'm not sure what you're trying to say or meant to say, but what you 

actually said is completel nonsense. It's like saying that the *fact* 

tht partner is wearing a blue shirt is UI.